Day of Silence

Every year, there is this day spent in silence by those who are silently protesting harsh and cruel words. Mainly names that are used against people.

Words I would rather not type...

This abuse is often targetting LGBT, certain races, and gender roles.

There is a need for awareness about how people use their words, even when it is not directed at somebody.

Using the word faggot amongst your friends...is no less inappropriate...it is a way you are mechanically driving the idea of "this is bad" into your friends' minds.

The point is that these words are associated with people, and the words are used negatively. This creates a negative association that makes people think that it is okay to be cruel.

It is not okay to be cruel, and that is what today is about.

If you see somebody trying to be silent, be respectful.

I remember trying to do this in high school and people were only more cruel. Teenagers are assholes, I'll say that much.

But, obviously you cannot do it if it is a day you work or do something important. But, extending support to those who are trying to make a difference makes all the difference.

Just say something like:

"I support you in this!"

And that's all you have to do. You don't have to brag about it, just do it.

Another thing I wanted to comment on, which is what spurred this blog post, is the effects it has on you as a speaker.

As a college student, it is difficult to take part in class while also remaining silent (a language class at that).

And one thing I never realized until trying this: I talk a lot and unnecessarily.

I didn't realize I talked so much, trying to stay so silent is effecting that.

I hope it'll carry over to later, but I think this may be a beneficial change for me.

What could trying to be silent for a day do to your behavior? What could you learn about yourself?